Wedding Expectations
Attire & Color Palette
We love style and fashion so much. We really want people to feel comfortable while fully embracing the dress code. It would be wonderful to see everyone dressed to the nines! See below for further details and inspiration!
We’ve put together a list of websites — some we’ve used ourselves and others friends have recommended — that are great for renting clothing or purchasing curated pre-owned pieces!
Meet us at the bar
Relaxed & Refined; All Black Attire
We’re envisioning a fun evening with cocktails and catching up together again. This event is meant to be casual, and come if you have the energy. We have a reserved space for everyone at one of our favorite bars!
For those coming, we’re hoping that all guests wear all black attire! Again, low-stakes and we want you to have fun with it! This can be in any way that you want. We’ve put some inspo into a Pinterest board if you’re also wanting to dress up more! (We don’t have many occasions to do this ourselves, so we definitely will be)!
Wedding Ceremony & Reception
A Timeless Fall Evening in NYC; Colorful & Statement (Have fun with it!)
Embrace the beautiful NYC fall weather with luminous fabrics such as silk, chiffon, and other soft, flowing textures. For those inclined to make a statement, consider joyful prints, romantic ruffles, or subtle touches of shimmer. We want everyone to have fun with it!
We encourage you to accessorize thoughtfully and incorporate vibrant colors (we want all the colors) this is a celebration, after all!
To honor the setting and occasion, we kindly ask that guests dress within our color palette or choose shades that complement it.
*We also request that guests refrain from wearing white, ivory, cream, beige, grey or black.*
Other things to note
Arrival to NYC
We expect that all guests will have arrived no later than Friday, October 2nd by 4pm local time. But we highly suggest arriving Thursday, October 1st, before everything starts!
Phones & Photos Policy During the Ceremony
We’re so excited to share this moment with you and want everyone fully present for the ceremony. You’ll have one designated opportunity to snap a photo—our officiant will let you know exactly when. After that, we kindly ask that all phones and cameras be put away until the ceremony ends. We promise there will be plenty of time (and beautiful lighting!) for photos afterward.
Participation and Vibes
We’re bringing the energy all weekend long—and we hope you will too! From the welcome night to the last dance, come ready to celebrate, connect, and make memories. Bring your best dancing shoes, toast-raising skills, and party spirit. Your joy and presence are what will make this weekend unforgettable. Let’s make it a celebration for the books!
+1s
We kindly ask that you honor our guest list as it appears on your invitation. Due to the intimate nature of our celebration, we are only able to accommodate those listed—thank you for understanding!
Children at the wedding?
We love your little ones, but we're keeping things adults-only for the weekend—it's our chance to enjoy a little getaway with all of you! Thanks for understanding and being part of our special celebration!
Timeliness
We kindly ask that guests plan ahead and arrive on time for each event throughout the weekend. Your presence and punctuality mean so much to us, and we want everyone to fully enjoy each moment we’ve thoughtfully planned. Thank you for helping everything flow smoothly!